I swear, a person does not need television around here. Yesterday we were taking a brisk walk along the shore. A storm was brooding over the Leelanau Peninsula and we wanted to be snugly back home before it hit. I heard shouting, and saw a tiny boat out there at the sandbar. What the heck, I thought. The sailors (I use the word loosely) could just jump in the water and practically wade ashore from there, towing their tiny craft with them. The farthest they’d have to swim would be maybe 50 feet. Were they really calling for help?
No. They were having an extended conversation amongst themselves about strategy. Eventually, a couple of guys took the plunge, lightening the load so that the others could sail back to shore farther on down. I chatted briefly with the waders as they made their way south along the beach, but took no photos of them. They were in a good mood, mind you, but were not really picturesque.
The little boat with its bright sail, now that was picturesque. I am fond of picturesque.
Fortunately, no doofusses were harmed in the shooting of these picturesque images. However, I cannot resist an editorial comment or two.
- A person should not go sailing without a Personal Flotation Device, particularly out on the Bay, which is notoriously fickle, and where winds can spring up in quite a playful fashion and huff and puff until you are clear out into the Big Lake.
- A person should not go sailing when a storm is brooding over the Leelanau Peninsula.
But then, just in case you think I am mean only to doofusses and do not see my own frailties (which is true, but you’ll never get me to admit it), I must tell you that I completely forgot the carpet draped over the deck rail to dry. Forgot it, that is, until late last night when I was awakened with the crash of thunder and the sound of a hard, hard rain. I comfort myself that at least the carpet is having a very thorough washing.
Amy-Lynn of Flandrum Hill is battening the hatches up in Nova Scotia. They are well-prepared for whatever Earl brings their way tomorrow, and are looking forward to a little cooling off. Naturally it would be nicer for Mama Nature to provide the cooling breezes without the hurricane, but she has her little ways. You know what? I have just consulted my map, and it turns out that Nova Scotia is not really “up” from northern Michigan but rather “over” a ways. Quite a long ways, but our good wishes are flying off there now. It matters to me whether a hurricane hits Nova Scotia in a general way–but it matters in a very particular way because Amy-Lynn lives there, and her grandson will be coming home from school this afternoon, and that’s personal.
Kathy up in L’Anse (definitely up) was mulling whether people who meet through reading each other’s blogs are real friends or imaginary friends. I was put in mind of a huge editing project I worked on a couple of years ago. Half a dozen editors from all over the country were laboring away on these tedious training modules. It took months, and most of us knew each other only through conference calls and email. When we finally met in person, during a celebratory cruise as the project wound down, there were some surprises, and a lot of head-nodding as if to say uh-huh, I knew it. The person I liked best of all lives near Houston, Texas, and it was no surprise at all that all of us were truly concerned for her family when Hurricane Ike came blasting ashore.
When you come right down to it, you get to know people by listening to what they say and watching what they do over a period of time. It’s always hard, isn’t it, to get to know the person behind the persona? But that’s the way it is, whether you meet over coffee at Sonny’s or over Skype in cyberspace. The important thing is to listen.
P.j. grath
September 3, 2010
It’s been quite a summer for dramatic clouds, but today’s dark and light sky contrasts took the cake for drama. Took the prize? Took my breath away! The bright sail is definitely picturesque, and I’m glad you have the eye for those things, Gerry.
Gerry
September 3, 2010
Thank you, PJ. I presume all the drama was set off by the tempestuous Earl. It has certainly cooled off. And my picturesque arrangement of leaves has blown right off the deck.
Scott Thomas Photography
September 3, 2010
Very nice blog, Gerry. I like your views on cyberfriends. It’s new, different yet, still the same.
Have a nice weekend! I’m off to Florida where I hope hurricanes only come in tall glasses for the next few days.
Gerry
September 3, 2010
Beware hurricanes in tall glasses, too. Even worse, tall hurricanes wearing glasses.
Just be careful out there, OK?
Do not fall out of sky.
Anna
September 3, 2010
Thoughtful post and enjoyable to read. Yes, some are risk takers as being doofusesses out in the rough waters in a light craft. Lovely the sail. Yes, picturesque. 🙂
Well, I’ve known people online as in acquaintances to ‘friendships’. Some truly only showed a facade online and carried it off-line. I’ve met the good, bad, and ugly. The best thing is as you said… listen and watch over a period of time; and this goes for online and face-to-face.
Gerry
September 3, 2010
There you go. Nothing new under the sun. Glad you enjoyed the doofusses. Er, risk takers.
Karma
September 3, 2010
I love the color of the sails against the threatening-to-storm sky.
I love getting to know all of you through the blogosphere. I’ve been lucky enough to meet in person a few of the bloggers I’ve read over the years, and so far they have all been great experiences. Scott and I are thinking of organizing a blogger meet-up at New England’s Great State Fair (The Big E) next year, so maybe some more of us will get to do the face-to-face thing!
Gerry
September 3, 2010
I think we should get out on the water–paddle, sail or steam through the Great Lakes from the Gaspe to Duluth, with a side trip to Chicago. Maybe a little bit too much, eh? Oh well.
Kathy
September 3, 2010
Verrrry interesting that you should discuss sailboats and possible dangers in high waters. Just read this story from our local TV station website: http://www.uppermichiganssource.com/news/story.aspx?id=506710
Luckily the Keweenaw sailors were rescued. What WERE they doing out during gale warnings anyway?
Also…just wondering…do you stay in close contact with your Houston friend? Do you talk on the phone sometimes? Inquiring minds want to know.
Gerry
September 3, 2010
I shouldn’t be too hard on the doofusses, as they were doing their very best to get back to shore–and did, eventually–and we weren’t having anything like the waves that we’re having now. (And boyohboy are you ever having worse! 25 feet??? Gack.) I just get exasperated with people who won’t wear PFDs and think that the Great Lakes won’t drown them. They will.
Yes, I’m in touch with the woman I met during the editing marathon. If I heard great news about her I’d do a happy dance and send off a note, but no, we don’t hang out on the phone. I don’t do a lot of that.
flandrumhill
September 6, 2010
I was concerned about that craft getting too close to those rocks. Waves can be unpredictable. I have always been nervous around water, a side effect of only learning how to swim as an adult.
For years my sons practiced holding their breath in the bathtub and would often give me a fright when I’d find them underwater wearing goggles. When they got older, all three were junior lifeguards at the ocean beach. Two of them eventually became full-fledged lifeguards and swimming instructors. (I always worried that they might drown rescuing some idiot doing what they ought not to have been doing). One now patrols the harbor at night by boat. I’ll have to ask him if he always wears a PFD.
Since I became a mother, worry’s become a bad habit. I worry about my kids but also family and friends, near and far. We’re all connected somehow. What touches one, touches all, so it’s only logical to worry.
Gerry
September 6, 2010
We must make a pact. When we are plagued by worry we can tell each other about it, talk each other through it, and never let our cubs know that their mama lions are pacing around growling.
flandrumhill
September 11, 2010
Sounds like a good idea Gerry. I’ll be in touch 🙂
Beth Toner
September 7, 2010
Two words: Darwinian selection. I reminded myself of that this weekend as my 17-year-old scrambled over log bridges over rock waterfalls despite my entreaties not to. *sigh*