On Sunday Cora Stoppert and I wandered down to Elk Rapids for brunch at Java Jones and a little window-shopping. We couldn’t resist going into Harbor Antiques and ended up spending a good hour looking at furniture, china, tin toys, oil paintings, vintage clothing, dolls, mysterious tools, wooden fishing lures, jewelry . . . look! My mother had one just like that! Oh my, isn’t that pretty? Good grief, what do you suppose that is? We didn’t find anything we couldn’t live without, but I expect Cora may go back for a cunning little cupboard she spotted.
I was drawn to an old photo album. I was turning its stiff pages—the kind with gilt-trimmed frames—and stopped dead at this one.
“Mom’s friend,” says the label, in handwriting very like my grandmother’s. Well. That’s interesting. I could make up all kinds of scenarios, couldn’t you? Here’s a photo of Mom, along with Aunt Kate. Pretty, aren’t they?
The same writing says Aunt Kate is Uncle Bert’s wife, and Uncle Bert is Dad’s youngest brother, so these two ladies in big hats are sisters-in-law. Perhaps they lived in Torch Lake Township and came into Elk Rapids to buy hats. They might have been Summer People, coming up from Chicago to stay at the Torch Lake Inn back in the 1880s. I would love to know whether they shared secrets over tea. Perhaps Mom’s friend joined them on occasion. Who knows? I may have to go back for that album. Maybe there’s a picture in there of Dad and Uncle Bert. Maybe there’s a whole story in there, waiting to be told. Maybe not. I have an overactive imagination. I’m very fond of it, too.
Cindy Lou
November 26, 2009
I love how you and Kathy make up such great stories about things/people that you find……fun! Happy Turkey Day!
Gerry
November 26, 2009
Thanks, Cindy Lou. Happy Turkey Day to you and yours as well.
centria
November 26, 2009
This is another weird synchronicity, Gerry. Yesterday I was helping Barry on the garage edition and NPR had a segment about finding a man finding a huge treasure in an old cupboard in an antique shop.
I am grinning about “Mom’s Friend”. I’m sure he was simply a friend. I’m sure. She grew up with him, swimming with a whole pack of kids down in Torch Lake. But she chose Dad.
P.S. did you see Sahlah (Dawn’s) idea to shop for “gifts” of twigs, rocks, feathers, etc…and blog our gifts to each other on Black Friday?
Gerry
November 26, 2009
I heard something like that on my way down this morning-maybe about butterflies? The NPR stations fade in and out as I travel. Sometimes I wander into the most amazing alternative universe.
Haven’t been visiting yet today – will go check out Virtual Shopping. Sounds like it might be in my budget.
p.j. grath
November 26, 2009
Your friends and readers are also fond of your “overactive” imagination and wouldn’t have it any other way. I know you would cherish and care for that old photograph album. I had a couple of them in my bookstore and was very happy when a young woman bought both, because I knew she was going to care for, love and preserve them.
Gerry
November 26, 2009
The past gets lost, one way and another. Perhaps it’s just as well. We have opportunities to do better. But I dearly love old stories . . . and new ones.
flandrumhill
November 27, 2009
I love these old stories Gerry. I think we’d all feel better rooted if we knew a secret or two about each of our grandparents. We’d probably find that we’re more like them than not.
There’s nothing healthier than an overactive imagination.
isathreadsoflife
November 27, 2009
Our imagination may wander but these old pictures might well keep their mystery. As you say, perhaps it’s just as well. It is interesting to see how people looked dignified on the pictures at tha time. Photos were rare and a moment to be remembered. I would have enjoyed the visit to Harbor Antiques too 🙂
Gerry
November 28, 2009
Amy, I think you’re right. The more complex the picture that emerges from the mist, the more we can empathize with the person.
Isa you’d love the antique store. It’s full of a satisfying mix of the amazing and the obscure.