Many years ago, in an effort to hang onto whatever language facility I had left, I watched the news programs on a worldwide Spanish language network. That is how I learned the word terremoto. Earthquake. For days, weeks even, regular programming gave way to constant coverage of the earthquake in Mexico City. There were stories about people trapped and people rescued, lives destroyed and redeemed. Heroes and charlatans poured in to help or to take advantage. International rescue teams brought high tech equipment and desperate relatives dug with their bare hands. But the thing that touched me the most was the way that a local Los Angeles station kept reading messages on little scraps of paper – la familia Gutierrez está bien, Esteban Morales está bien . . . In the days before omnipresent social media, people who managed to get through to family members or neighbors would write down all the news they could gather and bring it into the station. Ten thousand people died, millions lived, and in every single case, it was personal.
These toes belong to my friend Carol and my friend Chikako and my own self.
Shortly after that photo was taken, the toes on the left returned to Japan to live in a sophisticated high-rise in Tokyo, where the appliances talk. On Friday, after the earthquake, those toes found themselves away from home on business, and walked for hours in the dark through unfamiliar streets to get to a place to spend the night. Today the blessed message . . . Chikako Suzuki is safe. Her family is safe. The trains are running again. They grieve for the terrible losses in the north. They will do what they can to help.
Over in Greilickville Ayako Rowen was on the internet and on the phone all day, tracking down family members. They are safe, blessedly safe. But the images of the devastation and the count of the dead and missing are unimaginable to her.
Kiwidutch, who visits Torch Lake Views often, has been writing about the second earthquake in Christchurch in six months. Now, she writes, despite the ongoing work in Christchurch, one of New Zealand’s three specialist Urban Rescue Units (48 members strong) is flying out to Japan today to be of assistance in the towns of the north eastern coast. The team from Japan that came to Christchurch to assist in the work there, have (naturally) been released early for the urgent work now needed at home. That’s what I call International care and help… Christchurch Kiwi’s knew they weren’t alone, I hope that the people of Japan know that they aren’t either.
It’s personal. And when we remember that, suddenly we’re all in this together.
uphilldowndale
March 13, 2011
So very very true Gerry and the power of blogging is that it makes it a small world.
Gerry
March 13, 2011
It does indeed. I think I am on a mission to introduce the neighbors to each other, one real person at a time. It would seem a hopeless task, but I am not alone, so that’s all right then.
kiwidutch
March 13, 2011
Wow, THANK YOU Gerry for the kind words, and I couldn’t agree with you more… it IS personal.
We too have friends (American man with a Japanese wife) who live in Japan, luckily they are in Sapporo in the far far north, their family and friends are in the same area so they are all ok, but the shock of what’s happened in the Sendai area is deep indeed, and they will be trying to assist in whatever way they can.
Specialist Teams from all around the world are being dispatched to help, they are all friends who go to help a friend in need… Kiwi’s are just showing their practical appreciation of the help they have been and still are so gratefully receiving.
It’s wonderful to see that human beings can work together so well, but of course, awful that it’s such a catastrophic chain of events necessitates it.
To everyone who has family and friends in Japan, our hearts and thoughts are with you.
You are our friends, this IS personal.
Gerry
March 13, 2011
You are very welcome. When you raised the Edmonds Cookery Book–Sure to Rise like a flag, it made me see New Zealand in a whole new way. Also made me pull up my socks, grab my Our Michigan, and go marching off to peace behind you. So many things I cannot do, but this one thing I can: tell people’s stories, one real person at a time.
Fee
March 13, 2011
Once again, the world watches and grieves with another nation. There are UK teams on the way, complete with Border Collies, to do whatever they can. Truly a global community.
Gerry
March 13, 2011
There you go. Sturdy Scots armed with Border Collies. They will find people and they will get them out.
Sybil
March 13, 2011
Beautifully put. The toes do personalize it.
Please continue telling the stories.
Sybil in Eastern Passage, NS
Barbara Rodgers
March 13, 2011
So happy to know Chikako and her family are safe. I’m always conscious that every person who dies in a disaster was the most important person in the world to someone else. We are all in this together…
P.j. grath
March 13, 2011
Thank you for introducing us, Gerry. As soon as you told whose toes those were, I got shivers and am shivering still, teary-eyed. Bless you, dear!
Molly
March 13, 2011
Gerry I’ve done a lot of reading and thinking about suffering. The only way I can make sense of suffering is to believe that it teaches us compassion. I guess this is another way of saying how important it is to remember it’s always personal. I’m glad your friend is safe.
Karma
March 13, 2011
I’m happy to hear your friend is safe. Thank you for keeping it personal for all of us.
I’ve been “pen pals” with a man from France since the days when people actually did write letters (I was in high school and the arrangement was made through my French teacher). He married a woman from Japan and I immediately thought of them when I heard the news. Luckily her family is safe.
Gerry
March 14, 2011
Thank you all for your thoughtful comments and your contributions. Every perspective you add enriches this whole enterprise immeasurably.
Nye
March 15, 2011
I’m glad to hear that your friend and her family are safe. We have a customer in Japan that emailed us on Friday that they are okay also. It’s heart wrenching to watch, this brings back the memory when we had to leave Laos when I was little due to war. The feeling of devastation lives with you for a long time but it does makes you stronger.
Gerry
March 15, 2011
Oh Nye, it must be hard to remember. So much is lost. But you carried the most precious things within you, and they bloom in North Carolina. I love to read about all the parts of your life together, like a really beautiful quilt.